I’ve just finished filming the first sissy feminization training with a man and his wife.  She had called me asking my advice about her husband.  She had found a large box of very frill women’s clothing in the back of a closet and she didn’t know what to do or think.  The first thing she did was check his pc and found that he has had visited my site.  It was at that point she realized that these frilly clothes were his.  She know her husband was shy and had many feminine characteristic but this was a big surprise.
He was very lucky.  She loved him dearly and want him to be happy and satisfies but she didn’t know what to do and that’s why she called me.
We chatted in the telephone and I told her what I did and how I could be of help to her and her husband.  She scheduled their first session shortly thereafter.
I’ve done many trainings with couples and this was one of the most interesting.  They were both so excited and eager to learn.
I’ll write more about it soon.

Mrs Martin’s homework in preparation for her first feminization training with her husband and me.
My instructions:
Buy him a pair of pink satin ruffled panties and wrap then them pink gift wrap with a big pink bow.  Add a card and kiss it with red lipstick.  They note should read  “I know you’ll love wearing these panties for me tonight.  I can’t wait to see you in them.”

He’ll be very concerned at first so give them to him when he’ll be alone so that he can process it.  It will be hard for him to believe at first so you must reassure him.  When he comes home from work that night prepare a lovely dinner for the two of you.  Tell him over dinner that you have discovered his secret and that you want to share it with him and that you would love to explore, together, his fantasies about being a sissy and crossdresser.  Tell him you love him very much and that you want him to be your sissy husband for ever and ever.

It’s going to be very difficult for him to take this all in after many years of secrecy but be patient with him.  Give him time.  When dinner is over ask him if he will help with the dished but you would like him to do them while wearing his new panties and one of your sexy robes.  He’ll be very shy at first and not at all aroused but if you go slow doing the dishes and tell him occasionally how cute or sweet he looks in the panties the sooner he will relax in your presence.

After dinner tell him to follow you upstairs where you will do his finger nails and toe nails in a pink glossy color.  I’m sure by now you’ll notice him getting erect in his new panties but refrain from touching him.  Talking about how the panties and nail polish excite him and make him hard is recommended.  He’ll find it very erotic and loving.
After his nails are dry have him walk around the bedroom and model for you.  Again notice the erection but do not touch.  Tell him that you’re very tired and need to go to sleep.  Don’t say anymore than than.  If he wants to play or talk let him know that you’ll be happy to talk to him tomorrow.

He’ll be awake for a long time trying to understand what’s happening to him and how you are feeling about him being a sissy.  He may be very happy or still apprehensive.
When you wake in the morning reassure him again by asking, ”How did my sweet sissy husband sleep last night?.”

Here’s some of the conversation I had with Mrs Martin about her sissy husband.  Her first homework assign will be in the next post.

“My husband always seemed different in some way, Mrs Loving, but lately he has been acting in very strange ways.  He Had his ears pierced, and I’m positive he’s been in my underwear drawer. My bra’s and panties are all stretched out. And he’s been on websites called Prissies Sissies. I look at the pictures of grown men prancing about in little girl party dresses so obviously aroused and try to imagine my husband looking and feeling like that and some part of me knows that can’t possibly be true and yet at the same time part of me knows it’s true.
Mrs Loving says “That’s a lot to learn about your husband after all these years of marriage.  What are you’re thoughts and feelings right now”

“Frankly, Mrs Loving, that’s why I’m here. At first I thought, he must be crazy and that I was going to have to divorce him. Then I did some research and reading online and I discovered that there are many many men like Dave.  They call themselves many things but the most common is sissy husband. They seem to be submissive in nature and love to please their wives or mistresses sexually and otherwise.
In some ways this seems very appealing to me. I find the idea of being a mistress to my own husband very arousing indeed but it also a bit scary too. I love my husband Mrs Loving and I want him to be happy and sexually fulfilled but I also want to be fulfilled but I don’t know how make this happen for the both if us.
I could be totally wrong and I’m just making things up and seeing what’s not really there.

“My dear, I’ve been advising women just like you for many many years and from what you have told me I can assure you that you are not crazy and that your husband is indeed, a sissy husband.
My advise to you is as follows:
He’s going to be in denial at first.  Then, once he’s willing to admitted to himself and you he may become shy and embarrassed about it.
This phase of his feminization will require loving patience on your part. It could take months before he feels safe and protected enough to reveal his most secret sissy self to you, me and the world.
Keep your arms open and your heart loving, do as I instruct and you’ll rest knowing you will both lead a life of love, surrender and bliss.”

I’ve been training sissies for a very long time now and every once in awhile a case comes along that is especially challenging, unusual and especially sexy and hot.  This was such a case.  My newest client, Mrs Martin, came to see me because she was sure that her husband was a sissy but was afraid to talk to him about it.  She loved her husband and wanted him to know that she would support him no matter what.  But she had many concerns.  She didn’t know anything about having a sissy husband even though she had tried to find out about it online.  The information there was sparse and tended to suggest severe humiliation and punishment was called for.  I told her there were many ways to work with her husband and that I preferred a soft gentle style training that seemed to get better results.  This husband was lucky because most wives, when they discover their husband is a sissy, get scared and don’t know what to do.  Mrs Martin was open to new ideas and wanted her husband to be happy and satisfied. She readily agreed to the terms of my trainings.  She had to agree to at least one training session a month for one years and to do all the homework assignments.     We discussed the sexual aspects of the training, meaning that I would keep her husband in a heightened state of sexual desire. She would learn those techniques as a means of controlling her husband. She came to my flat a week later.  Her knock was soft and timid.  I invited her in and lead her to the sun porch where we sat and shared a pot of hot tea. She was looked quit sweet wearing a t shirt and a denim skirt.  Not my taste but very pretty never the less. She was nervous so the get the interview moving forward I asked her to explain how she came to think that her husband might be a sissy.  Mrs Martin explained that she was searching for a small movie that her brother had sent her and suddenly a movie popped up and began to play.  She stared in disbelief, not knowing what to think or what to feel.  She was seeing a man wearing a little girls party dress complete with petticoat and frilly pink pantie.  His cock was red and hard and sticking straight out of the soft petticoat.  There was an older woman sitting down in front him stroking and rubbing his cock.  She was talking about milking his sissy cock so that she could see his sissy cock squirt.
She replayed the movie over and over imagining her husband standing there in that dress.  At first she thought that maybe this movie had been part of adult spam email. When she checked his computer directories she found another 25 movies from Mrs Loving’s site.  She watched them all finding her self strangely drawn to the highly erotic training sessions.
She had noticed that her husband had been plucking his eyebrows and until now thought he was going a little overboard on his grooming. He had begun to shave his legs telling her the hair made him itchy. Now she knew what was really going on, well at least she thought she did.  
The next thing she did was check the closets and the basement to see if her hunch was right. After two hours of looking she found a box buried in the back of rack of tools in the garage.  She opened it and her jaw dropped as she pulled the little pink satin party dress out first.  It was dripping with lace and bows, slippery and soft tot he touch.  Next came a pair of matching panties and little bra. She tried to imagine her husband dressing and masturbating and it made her a bit sad.  There was a part of her husband that she didn’t know and that he had chosen not to share with her.  She loved him and knew immediately that she wanted to fully immerse her self into this part of his life.  That’s when she called Mrs Loving for advice.