I’ve been femininity men and boys for many years. I’ve lost count of how many sissies I’ve put into girls panties. Beside being very feminine and submissive many had another trait in common. They were married. Married men make up most of the sissies that come to me feminization sessions. They are in the closet about these deep needs and desires because they are sure that if their wives found out about them they would be asked to leave the family home and heart. The thought of that is intolerable. They loves their wives and families and are very willing to keep the sissy part of selves secret.
There are others of you that would like to tell their wives about themselves hoping that they will embrace the idea and love seeing and playing with him in his lingerie. I know of many wives who when told felt compassion and concern for their husband and embraced their need to crossdress. For some of the wives it was difficult and took a long time. For others they were excited about the new possibilities, sexual and otherwise, this brought to their marriage. I even know of one wife that when told let her husband know that she had been waiting for him to tell her and that had already purchased a full lingerie wardrobe for him and was anxious to try it all on him. He has been in sissy heaven since. Not all experiences of telling your wives has worked out well. Great difficulties can follow. I’ll talk more about that in future posts.
I know that many of you would l Ike to tell their wives but have no idea of how to go about it. Every couple, every situation and every family is different so any advice you follow must keep that in mind.
Over the next several weeks I’ll be writing about things you can do in preparation for telling you wife and for your life as sissy.
