I’ve been femininity men and boys for many years. I’ve lost count of how many sissies I’ve put into girls panties. Beside being very feminine and submissive many had another trait in common. They were married. Married men make up most of the sissies that come to me feminization sessions. They are in the closet about these deep needs and desires because they are sure that if their wives found out about them they would be asked to leave the family home and heart. The thought of that is intolerable. They loves their wives and families and are very willing to keep the sissy part of selves secret.
There are others of you that would like to tell their wives about themselves hoping that they will embrace the idea and love seeing and playing with him in his lingerie. I know of many wives who when told felt compassion and concern for their husband and embraced their need to crossdress. For some of the wives it was difficult and took a long time. For others they were excited about the new possibilities, sexual and otherwise, this brought to their marriage. I even know of one wife that when told let her husband know that she had been waiting for him to tell her and that had already purchased a full lingerie wardrobe for him and was anxious to try it all on him. He has been in sissy heaven since. Not all experiences of telling your wives has worked out well. Great difficulties can follow. I’ll talk more about that in future posts.
I know that many of you would l Ike to tell their wives but have no idea of how to go about it. Every couple, every situation and every family is different so any advice you follow must keep that in mind.
Over the next several weeks I’ll be writing about things you can do in preparation for telling you wife and for your life as sissy.
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I think even the strongest man would melt and find his feminine side in Mrs. L’s hands. She’s so gentle and, well loving. What a gorgeous Mistress. (Loving Monica’s breasts, too!!)
Thank you Mistress…
Dave
My X wife would hear nothing of my desires to cross dress. I am and always be a heterosexual and have no desire for having any kind of homosexual encounter with another male. I am strickly a cross dresser and I do not even do that now. I hate solitary sex. I wanted my wife to go along but she left me. End of a sad story.
I would love my wife to accept my sissy ways and my love of frilly panties, dresses and all things girly, it would be like a dream come true. I have many times tried to explain how I feel and that it is just a part of who I am, but when she found some of my dresses and panties she burnt them and forbade me from ever dressing up again. So now I have to be so careful she never finds anything. If there was a way of of changing her mind and alow me to wear my favorite things at times, and even join in and help me develop my fem side, would be so wonderful.
hi there miss lovings i live by my self and i like to wearlingerie and play with my cock and cum my mum caught me wearing her panties an her bra an her dress to she was not happy with me os need some hlep can please hlep me out with my dress up thanks panties
I can help you in so many different ways. Perhaps you can give me more information
Mrs Loving
I don’t think that there is a simple solution to this. I think it unlikely that your wife will ever participate in your dress up playtime as much as you would like if ever.
Her reaction to finding your dresses and panties doesn’t seem like that of a loving, compassionate and empathetic spouse and those are characteristic your wife would need to understand and support you.
I’m sad for that you will leave to hide who your are and what you love.
You need to know that that there are real women in the real world that have a special place in their hearts and pussies for sissy, feminine men.
I have a friend who says ” I like my coffee strong and my men weak”
Don’t give up on your dreams, desires and most importantly your self
Mrs Loving
Yes, it’s the end of a sad story and perhaps the beginning of a new better one. You now have a new found freedom to dress and express your self in all kinds of fun and sexy ways. You can learn about make up and wigs and dressing to go out. There are support groups most everywhere for crossdressers. Find and join one. Meet members and their wives. Have fun.
Sex workers are a wonderful way to experiment with your fantasies and kinks. Find the ones that that you’ll love will take some time and dedication and of course money but I can tell you that you will glad you did.
I sorry for you that you you have no desire for a homosexual encounter. From the way you phrase that it make feel that you may be a touch homophobic which means to mean that you don’t much about the glbt community and how welcoming they will be to you when and if you come out.
Also, there is something deeply satisfying having sex with someone who understand your desires and fetishes as much as you do and the only other person that can do that will be another crossdresser who loves what you love. You’ll never have the experience of the being desired fully and completely and fucked right into heaven
Give your self permission to receive pleasure when it is offered no matter who it comes from